1. Lead with a sentence. Tell us something about you. An opening photo gets you nothing.
2. Talk to both of us. Tony reads everything. If you are only trying to reach Ava, you have already missed the point.
3. Be verifiable. A real profile with face photos, or a short video chat. We do not meet ghosts.
4. Public first. A drink somewhere neutral with no expectations attached. If the chemistry is not there, we all shake hands and that is genuinely fine.
5. Health is a conversation, not an accusation. We test regularly and we will talk about it openly. We expect the same from you.
6. Discretion runs both ways. What we do is ours, what you do is yours, and neither is a story for anyone else.
7. Any one of us can stop anything at any point without explaining. That is not fine print, it is the whole deal.

If all of that reads as reasonable to you, we will probably get along. If it reads as a lot of rules, we are almost certainly not your couple.